better sex guide
Sex and sleep
When we use the word “sleep” and the word “sex” in the same sentence, it usually has very little to do with sleeping! This is especially true when you are sending time with a fuck buddy. The reasons to meet up and hang out have very little to do with catching 30 winks! In fact, for many people, when they start sleeping with a fuck buddy for the first time the number of hours spent sleep dramatically drops! This is not a problem in the short term of course. It is very normal, and is something that we all go through. Having periods of time where we sleep less in our lives is something that...
Top sex tips to be a better fuck buddy
In the world of adult dating, one of the biggest thing we focus on is finding and keeping a fuck buddy. This makes a lot of sense. Sometimes finding someone to have a hook up with can take time and effort. This can often be the biggest barrier to a great sex life. Once you have a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits relationship set up and in place, it can be that the rest slots into place. You also have someone else who is helping you get there too! With that in mind we often spend a lot of time focusing on the external. How we look, what other people think of us, how to get to the close...
Making the most of sex during extended lock down
Here in the UK we were all looking forward to the major lifting of restrictions. Soon we would all be able to once more go where we want, do what we want, have sex with who we want to without the strict regulations that were put in place due to the spread of the coronavirus pandemic. However, sadly for all of us, Boris Johnson extended the current rules and we are all not getting out of lockdown yet. It will happen, but we are all going to have to make the best of what we have. So with that in mind, if you already have a fuck buddy, how can you make the best of the sex that you are having...
Reasons your fuck buddy may not enjoy sex
For most people, sex is generally really good. Whilst you may get better at sex over time, sex is not something that most people have to work at in order to enjoy doing it. They might want to enjoy it more, so they make work at it for that reason, but for many people, it comes quite naturally. For a few people, however, sex is not that enjoyable. That is not to say it is unenjoyable all of the time, but they may have periods of time where it is unenjoyable, or they may have certain obstacles that they need to overcome in order to open the door to the boundless pleasures that sex can bring...
How to use music when having sex
In this article, I want to assume that you already have a fuck buddy. You have taken the steps to get one: you went online, made a profile, messaged a bunch of people, had a couple come back, met up with one or two of them in person and you ended the night by hooking up. It is all good in your book. You now have a fuck buddy (or two!) and you are having sex. All is well.
Now that you are having sex, you are starting to think about things you can do to improve the quality of the sex. You have done the basics, you have cleaned your place up and made sure that the bedroom is...
Top three tips to upskill your sex life!
Adult dating has become very normal in the modern western world, and what a relief it is that this has happened. Sex is something that makes everyone healthier and happier. It is good for the brain as it stimulates blood flow, it is good for the body as it is a legitimate calorie burning exercise, it is good for the soul as it releases happy hormones into the body that raise a sense of well being and, well, happiness! Sex is excellent, and we should all be having more of it.
Once you have a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits, you might be thinking about wanting to improve your sex...
How to biohack your way to better sex Part 2
If you are reading this, it is because you are on the fuck buddy website, unless someone has stolen this article and cut and pasted it onto a separate website, in which case shame on you for taking my work! If you are here you probably already have someone that you are having sex with. Given how much sex is a fundamental part of our health and happiness, once you start looking it is easier than you might think to have a hook up or find a friends with benefits relationship. There are as many women who want them as much as men do, so it is just case of finding each other, after that you can...
Biohacking for better sex
Once you have found a fuck buddy and you are generally having hook ups on a regular basis, most people turn their focus and energy away from seeking more partners and towards increasing the fun that is to be had with those said partners. Makes sense, once you have the quantity, you want to start making sure that you improve the quality of your time together. When it comes to being better in bed, there is a ton of information out there. Books, videos, advice columns… everyone seems to have an opinion on the subject. There are also a number of approaches that you can take to improving you...
Better Sex Guide: Always assume that the other person loved the sex
When we have sex, regardless of how enlightened we are about the act, how rounded a view we take on it and how much we come to understand that it is more than just about coming – some part of us checks in on whether the other person has come or not. We also care about whether the other person has a good time – which is what this check in is rooted in. Again, only the most selfish sell centred (to the point of genuine medically diagnosable social issues) ignore whether the other person has enjoyed themselves – and infact our own enjoyment of the sex is tied into this. If the other person...
Using candles to make things hotter in the bedroom
So you have a fuck buddy and everything is great. You are having a really time with her/him, you think they are hot, they think you are hot, you have brilliant sex together, all in well in the world. You have gotten past the first fuck stage (the first time is never great – too many nerves and being unsure of the other persons lines and positions etc etc) and you are into the have great sex section. You have started to mix up the sex positions, you haven’t only done missionary, you have found a real love of doggy style, or the reverse cowgirl or another position that just seems to work...