There are many things we are sure of in life. We need to eat. We need to sleep. We need to exercise. We need to play. We need to have sex. For humans sex is a biological imperative. The less sex we have, the less healthy we become. You only have to look at the Roman Catholic scandals from the past 5 years alone to realise that enforced abstinence is not healthy for a large majority of the priesthood.
So here are 5 simple reasons everyone should at experience casual sex at least once before they kick the bucket.
1. Valar Morghulis (All Men Must Die)
Okay so I stole this from Game of Thrones, but it’s very true. We all live, and we all die. We don’t know if there is anything else past this life, but our understanding of science thus far, tells us that there is not. So we should try and experience as much as we can before we die.
2. It’s Fun
Unlike a relationship, with casual sex you can have fun for fun’s sake. You don’t have to be worrying about someone else’s feelings or reactions to any new kinky positions you want to try but were afraid to with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
3. No Commitment
See above. You can have sex as much as you like, but you don’t have to do the irritating dating stuff like going to a restaurant or cinema.
4. No Promises
Sometimes the best relationships arise from casual sex, but that’s because no one has made any promises beforehand. Don’t promise anything and you find that casual sex is so much more enjoyable.
5. Not Emotional
Partly true. Casual sex is less emotionally involving than sex in a monogamous relationship.
6. You Learn More About Yourself
Emotionally and physically; casual sex teaches you more about yourself than you’ll ever learn in a committed relationship.
7. The Lines Are Clearer
There is no blur with casual sex as long as you’ve been upfront about it from the start. The lines and boundaries are very clear and if one of you wants to change them you only need ask.
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