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The sex to other ratio in a fuck buddy relationship
People who set up a fuck buddy relationship are focused on one main thing – the sex. This is also true of other, similar, relationships. Finding a friend with benefits, a hook up, a one night stand… these are all things were the focus is on the sex rather than the other things. There are many benefits and advantages of this. The main one is that the sex is likely to surpass, in both quality and quantity, the sex that would otherwise be had in a more traditional relationship. As the purpose behind the coupling is the sex, there is often a greater openness as to ones desires and wants. Since...
Why Christmas is the perfect time to find a fuck buddy
Christmas is here and with it comes all the good cheer and happiness that the festive season brings. As so famously described by Nat King Cole: chestnuts roasting on an open fire (is that a real thing that people do?), Jack Frost nipping at your nose (with the general climate change that has occurred it’s actually quite warm here in the UK at the moment!), Yuletide carols being sung by the choir (we don’t get them knocking on doors anymore, but if you go to a church or if you work for a company that has a choir then this is something that is real) and folks dressed up like Eskimos (not...
Can the UK energy crisis help you hook up with a fuck buddy
The UK energy crisis is here and things are starting to get difficult indeed. Gas prices are going up as is electricity prices. There doesn’t seem to be any sign of oil prices going down any time soon. For those with the option of heating their houses or homes using wood fires, this is a cheaper alternative to using central heating and a nice way of doing it… but even wood is starting to go up do to the unexpected demand in light of the energy crisis. Prices really are getting high to the degree that it is difficult for some people to afford the basics here. This is a really unusual and...
Top texts to send to your fuck buddy the day after
Finding a fuck buddy can take a lot of effort. It can be a real chore sometimes, but when you find one all that effort is worth it. There are many staple things in life that will make you happy. Good food is a real pleaser, being warm (pretty basic) but that is a really happiness giver. Having sex with someone for the first time is also a real kicker! That being said, whilst the first time there are a lot of things to do with the newness and novelty that make it really good, when it comes to having really deep pleasure it takes time to get to know each other. You really do need to learn to...
Why work can be a great place to have a fuck buddy
When it come to having a fuck buddy, no strings attached relationship or other friends with benefits set up, most people prefer to have someone that is very separate from their day to day lives. This is one of the reasons that adult online dating can be such a good option when it comes to finding a fuck buddy, because for the most part, you are meeting people that are outside of your social circle. The big advantage to this is that if you decide you want to end the relationship, it is much easier and there is little to no backlash for doing so. You can, quite literally, never see the...
What will a fuck buddy describe as good sex?
We all want to be having good sex. All of us. We also all want the person that we are sleeping with to also be having good sex. For most of us, part of having good sex is that the other person is there with us, on the same journey to having good sex at the same time. Part of our pleasure and excitement comes from their pleasure and excitement. The two feed each other leading to an ultimate climax (quite literally) and orgasm. So what is good sex?
Good sex is personally defined
Good sex is actually whatever you decide it is. In the words of Shakespear “thinking makes it so”...
Understand your fuck buddy: why people lie about what they want in bed
Sex is a natural process and, frankly, everyone should be having more of it. I have said it before and I will say it again, if more people were having more sex, we would all be in a happier place! One way of increasing the quality of your sex is to understand it better. If you can understand your fuck buddy better, the better you can work to please each other more and more. Sex, whilst it really is a natural process, is also a complicated thing! Some people have studied it for a lifetime and never managed to learn everything about it. It has a complex science behind it… but when actioned...
Understand your fuck buddy: why sex is harder to talk about in this era
We live in the liberated modern age of sexual enlightenment. Adult dating has become something that more and more people have embraced. We are more open to those who wish to have alternative arrangements and partnerships. This can be simple such as people who hook up or only have one night stands. This could be people who chose to have fuck buddies but od not want any of the strings that are usually attached to relationships. This could be the more classic friends with benefits set up or booty call buddy. However, the modern age has taken this even further. Non-monogamous long-term...
The summer sun brings out all the hotties
Sometimes it can be really hard to get motivated enough to find a fuck buddy, even when you know you want one. If you have been out of the marketplace for a while this can make it even harder. It is easy to get into the habit of being alone, and by “alone” I don’t mean bereft of people entirely, I just mean without a friends with benefits or someone you can hook up with easily and pleasurably. If it has been more than 6 months since you booty called someone (or were the recipient of a booty call) the you are also likely out of the habit. We are creatures of habit by our very nature. We get...
How to overcome sexual performance anxiety
In our last article, we talked about what sexual performance anxiety is. To briefly recap, it is where someone experiences worry, stress, nervousness or anxiety triggered by the thought or action of having sex. The difference between it verse something that is a passing feeling rather than a problem, is that these feelings are strong enough to manifest symptoms to the person experiencing them. They can result in a reduced sex drive, increased heart rate and difficulty in having sex through a number of other symptoms. In this article, we...
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