F-Buddy Blog
Why you need to use Condoms
Only 19% of single women between the ages of 20 and 44 used condoms in 2008 according to a study by the Guttmacher Institute. In 2012 STI diagnoses rose in the UK by 5%. Instead of more people using contraceptives, more people are using it less and less. The idea of bareback sex is so attractive now; that we no longer seem to think that it carries any risk. Most of us using this site are after all, middle class and holding down a decent job. Yet we are at a higher risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection/disease (STI/STD) than any other social group.
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What Women Want in Bed
Sex for guys is relatively straightforward: we see a woman we fancy and we want to shag her. It sounds primeval and caveman like, and it is. Yet you might be surprised to know that women can be almost as primeval and cavewoman like about sex as men are. Following several surveys that were conducted by numerous publications including Cosmopolitan, Ask Men and many more, it turns out that what women want in bed actually fulfils a lot of male desires and fantasies. This makes sense when you think about it as otherwise men and women would have stopped having sex for fun a long long time...
Sex & Alcohol this Spring
Whether you want to believe it or not; alcohol does affect your libido in both positive and negative ways. As booze culture has become so negatively associated with young singeltons in the UK, we thought it might be worth exploring the ups and downs of how drinking will affect your dating and sex life. Pay attention people as it’s time to find out just what a bottle of wine or ten pints of beer can do to your libido.
1. Dutch Courage
An old cliché for a reason; it’s true. We don’t encourage you to drink in order to get up the courage to ask someone out,...
Our Newest Members: Alicja is Awesome
Say hello to our latest member Alicja.
Alicja is one of those dream girls that every guy lusts after. She loves sex too so that’s good news. Her favourite position is the classic missionary, but she enjoys doing it doggy style and giving as much oral as you can handle. She’ll give more if you return the favour.
Alicja describes herself as a nice and kind supergirl who just wants to say ‘hihi’ if you know what we mean (hehe).
If you’re her cup of tea than she might invite you over to her place to enjoy a hot movie or two, and if that fails to sweeten the deal...
How to be a feminist and still enjoy Casual Sex?
The first thing that comes to mind when anyone talks about feminism is “ugly, angry, unattractive women”. Other stereotypes include ‘loud’, ‘screechy’, and ‘deeply unhappy’. Like all stereotypes there is always a small element of truth in it, but it is only a very small element. Having met and slept with many feminists I can safely say that’s a load of absolute rubbish.
The Real Deal
The very right wing brand of feminism assumes women are fragile pathetic simpletons incapable of looking after themselves. Why else would such a culture highlight ‘women...
Do you masturbate enough?
For some reason everyone is always embarrassed to talk about this aspect of sexual health. Masturbation is almost always good for your sex life. Men and women have been doing it for centuries. It’s only recently that the subject has become a bit less awkward to talk about, but even now it seems that many avert their gaze. Fact: Masturbation is normal, masturbation can be healthy, and masturbation is practised by both sexes. We’re going to dispel a few myths that should help you decide whether or not you’re jacking off too much or not enough.
1. Relieves stress and...
How to be the perfect fuck buddy
A lot of women have been emailing us this question so we thought we’d try and give you all a few pointers to doing it properly. There is no right or wrong answer (sorry to disappoint everyone), but there are a few ground rules which should have both parties enjoying their time together before things start getting a bit tired six months down the line.
1. Remember it’s not forever
Fuck buddies come and go. This isn’t a boyfriend you’re road testing. This is someone you finds physically and mentally attractive enough to want to sleep with. The moment you...
Our Newest Members: Sandra’s Fantasy
Say hello to our latest member Sandra.
Sandra is looking for a nice, clean and respectable man preferably between the ages of 29-50. He needs to be in good shape and love a bit of roleplay…wait…what?!
That’s right fellas, Sandra is looking for a bit of fantasy in her life right now. If you’ve ever dreamt of finding a girl whose imagination outstrips your own, then look no further. Sandra has it all. Like the best members, she likes to play it safe with a new partner, so make sure you pack lots of condoms before you meet her.
She doesn’t answer to one liners or...
Oral Sex Technique
Everyone who’s ever gone down on someone else or had someone go down on them knows for a fact that it takes practise to be good at oral sex. For women oral sex is sometimes the only way to achieve orgasm. That means a guy has to be good when he’s going below. Men are pretty easy to get off, but there are lessons to be learned by any woman who thinks she’s great at blow jobs. You have to know exactly how to titillate a man’s penis in order to get him to come properly. So below are the best ways to sort yourself and your partner out when you go down.
1. Cunnilingus...
The Value of Strip Clubs?
Someone asked me recently what the point of strip clubs are? I couldn’t actually answer for a good five minutes. It seemed stupid to say ‘you get to look at naked women’, but that really is the point of strip clubs. You go there to look at naked women. Not just any naked women mind you. Strippers are usually very tones and fit. They have to be to do their job. So then my friend asked me their next question: what’s the value of strip clubs? You pay a lot to get in, and then even more to get a lap dance. What’s the point? You can’t touch any of the strippers, and sex is so far...