Lets presume you have already gone through the process of finding your fuck buddy. You got your act together and decided you wanted one. So you wrote a profile, put some pics of you with your best side on the site, and then you took the initiative to contact some people. You messaged more people than you thought you would have to (it is always that way!) and you didn’t want to sleep with the first person you met up with in person. Then you found someone you liked that was on the same wave length and suddenly BAM you are having all the sex. Lets presume you are there! Here are some top fuck buddy sex tips to see you through!
Make a sex bucket list
A lot of us have a life bucket list filled with places to travel and usually a bungee jump or something equally dangerous, so why don’t we do this with sex? If you make a list of the things that you want do, the things that you want to try, that will help to keep the sexual journey moving. As well as it helping the sex for both of you, the best part is you get to do the things that you really want to do! Thinking about it doesn’t work. Write it down and you will find that it is more likely to happen.
Have a secret booty call phrase
In jokes are a great way of building rapport between people, we use them with our friends, family and at work. Developing a personal shared language between two people helps build closeness... so start to do that with your fuck buddy. If you want to text them for a botoy call, rather than say it explicitly, what is much more fun and would bring better results is a shared phrase that you both use. I have spoken to people that have used everything from “you wanna go bowling tonight” through to “I need to borrow a cup of sugar”. Texting this keeps the secret between the two of you (should anyone else read the text message) and will increase excitement between the two of you.
Get Hot and Sweaty for Sex!
When you sweat you smell more – part of that is increased pheromone production. This increased pheromones will mean that your sexual partner will be more attracted to you. You think you ought to shower after a big work out? No! Work out and get your f-buddy to come meet you at the end with a special reward for working out so hard. They will actually enjoy it and be more turned on than you will!
Go forth and fuck.
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