This might sound blindingly obvious to some, but choosing the right fuck buddy for a casual relationship is something that requires a little more thought then what’s between your legs can provide. The number of couples where one person ends up getting hurt because they didn’t take the time to consider their options carefully is amazing. So listen up f-buddies!
1. It’s not just about the pictures
Okay so she or he might look super hot; have amazing breasts, tones six pack etc etc…but to be truly sexually compatible with someone lies not in the balls but in the brain. We all know that when sex is great it’s great! But we also know that just because someone has an amazingly hot body, does not guarantee that they are amazing in bed. Take the time to peruse past the pictures and see what else your potential fuck buddy has written.
2. Messaging is important
Whilst some people do this, we would not recommend just opening with ‘Hey, fancy a fuck?’ That rarely works and then only when you’ve already slept with somebody you feel comfortable enough to say that to. Read the profile. If you like what you’ve read, then message them accordingly. Watch your tone, and keep it clean…at first.
3. Just the sex ma’am. Just the sex.
This is not someone you want to date. This is someone you want to see you have chemistry with. You don’t want to go on long moonlit walks, have candlelight dinners etc. If someone has written that in their profile then we would suggest that they are on the wrong website and would happily recommend they head over to one of the more traditional dating sites.
4. Age…isn’t as important.
The great thing about having a fuck buddy is that you don’t have to worry if someone is at the same educational, life…whatever-level you are at. You simply need to know if they make you hot enough to want to screw them senseless or be screwed senseless by them. So if you’re a 45 year old woman who wants to have sex with a 24 year old bloke, or a 20 year old bloke wanting to have sex with a 36 year old woman then you don’t need to have to know about their job, income, lifestyle etc to make it work.
5. Know the end is always in sight
A fuck buddy is a fuck buddy for a reason; it’s rarely permanent, unless you want to live your entire life casually. A casual relationship will inevitably end the moment one or both of you meet someone who just does it for you physically and emotionally and for the long haul. Keep the chequered flags in sight, and you can’t go wrong.
Happy fucking!
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