There is a huge connection between being a “winner” and getting laid. We all know this to be true, and in fact a surprisingly large proportion of our society is actually based around this fact. Whether our world is set up to drive the connection between winning and getting laid, or if indeed getting laid and winner have always been connected and our community moulded itself around this after the fact is something that I cannot answer in this article. All I can talk about it how it effects us NOW – which is frankly also the more useful thing to cover.
There are some exceptions of course, but for most of us if we had no job, no money, just spent our time lying around watching Netflix and doing no actual work at all, most people would look on us as losers. We would be looked down upon, people would think us useless and worthy of no respect for our life choices. We certainly would have trouble getting laid!
Take the opposite now. Someone has a high flying all consuming city job. They rise at 6am – get in a suit and work 12 hour days. They make a ton of money, drive a flash car, eat at expensive restaurants and spend without considering the costs (as to them the cost is minimal). They spend little to no time with their friends and families, their lives are consumed by the rat race. Now that person IS getting laid a lot – or so we are told. They are seen as desirable, attractive, a person that is a “catch”. They are “winners” and they get sex.
This is what we are told, and this is the way that our world is structured. It is set up to try and reward the productive working drones and punish those that contribute nothing. On the face of it this is true, and most people agree that the above is true. That “winning” gets you laid. I would like to point out one (and only one) simple flaw in this.
The person with the 12 hour working day has no time to spend his money. He doesn’t have the space to capitalise in on it and enjoy a high quality of life!
The person with no job may have no money, but so much if free these days he can have a really high quality of day to day life and enjoyment that he doesn’t need the money. He also has the time to get laid! The other guy doesn’t – but this guy does.
So this begs the question – are the winners really getting laid more that the other guys, or are they just doing it less but in more expensive beds?
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