So you have done the usual sexy clothes. If you are a guy you have been out with your best pressed shirt and shined shoes, you have also been out looking “casual” like you threw on some jeans and a t-shirt whilst in the back of your heading know that you actually spent an hour agonising over what to wear and if the jeans looked casual enough or not! If you are a girl you have experienced all the attention one gets when you go out in a boob tube and a short skirt, as well as the attention you can also wield in a long dress depending on the setting you are in. So you know what it is like to get some attention, and for most of you, you enjoyed it. Have you ever done this in a much less vanilla way however?
Going off the tracks a little you have a whole world waiting for you filled with material you have never tried. For those of you who have, I applaud your adventurous nature! For those of you who haven’t, I am here to tell you why you should be considering a step into wearing something a little more racy.
Rubber, Latex and leather have always been associated with anything from unstoppable sexiness to slutty and smuttiness. It is the realm of naughty sex, of hard fucking, of pushing the boundaries of what is acceptable in the bedroom to area’s where were the two adults not consenting, then one would almost certainly face jail time. It is about accessing your primal urges of see want take, of fucking like an animal – something that both men and women enjoy equally. So why do it?
When you put on rubber or latex, it acts like a costume. It is a material you never otherwise wear, and look you never otherwise have. This alteration of look and feel combined, allows you to step into being another version of yourself. You are still you, but you can be a different side of you. Perhaps that side is super dominant, or perhaps that side of you is submissive. Perhaps that ‘you’ wants to be thrown around, or punished, or taken ‘against’ your will, or perhaps that side of you wants to be the one to throw someone around, punish them or take them ‘against’ their will. I put the word ‘against’ in quotation marks because of course in the same way that the clothing acts as a costume to allow you to play a version of yourself, it remains play. Both people of course must be into it, and so no one is really ever taken against their actual will, they have consented to be taken in the first place. See the article on consent.
So if you want to try and step into another side of yourself, a way to do this would be to wear some material that you have never worn before. Rubber, Latex and Leather all come with a history and association of pushing the boundaries in the bedroom, so I highly recommend that you give them a go!
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