Fore play is so important when it comes to having sex. Whilst the “main event” is what everyone is aiming for, without the lead up to it, you can find you arrive to an anti-climax. Much like life being as much about the journey as the destination, a good orgasm has a lead up to it, and without the lead up to the orgasm, the orgasm generally won’t be as good as it could have been. This is especially true when sleeping with a fuck buddy.
The nice thing about a no string attached relationship, is that it can come from a place of honesty. There are no strings, there is no reason to have to lie, re frame or obfuscate in any way. This honesty can mean you have the best sex of your life. You can find yourself being able to talk to the other person about the sex without feeling awkward or weird about it. This means that being able to give advice is as important as being able to take it.
So this article is for both men and women, because if you can’t tell a girl how to give you the greatest blow job ever, how are you ever going to be able to get one?
Eye contact
When a girl gives a guy a blow job, there is something about them looking up and making eye contact that sends a thrill of excitement through the guy. It is the “fuck me” look. When a girl is sucking a guys cock and she looks up with that “I want you, please please fuck me” pleading look in her eyes, there is nothing more exciting. If you are girl, try it. If you are a guy, tell your girl to do it. You will both love the reaction!
Go three dimensional!
Most blow jobs are two dimensional, they go up and down the shaft. I say go three dimensional! As the girl works her way down the shaft, she should rotate her head side to side in a corkscrew motion. As she gets to the tip, take a moment to use the tip of her tongue to play with the underside of the head, coming off the whole penis really slowly. This will drive him crazy!
Remember the balls!!!
How many girls forget to play with the balls when giving a blow job? For the love of sex, please remember to play with the balls. Tickle them, stroke them, caress them… they are as close to boobs as a man can get. Do not neglect them.
Here’s to blow jobs. Thank good ness they were invented!
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